March 19, 2013
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Good for the planet.
Can heterosexual Men & Women be just friends?
“If we all thought like women, almost certainly! But if we all thought like men… We’d probably be facing a serious overpopulation crisis.” lol
So that must mean friendzoning has long term sustainable benefits for our planet..
Note to self: I still have another 2 weeks to shop for clothes to wear to attend for weddings, It’s either April fool or the month, to be hitched. Anyways… lol I know i get easily excited but I’m fascinated with Gorillas.
I wonder what he’s thinking. Gorillas are such magnificent intriguing creatures, hopefully one day, ill get to meet one and he wont rip off my head and kill me.
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I was friends with girls when single because they never found me attractive.
I have had 2 or 3 female friends while married and we were just friends. It is possible to be friends with the opposite sex, but as you implied, men are more easily aroused sexually, so it takes discipline for them. I do not understand how that works in women and I am 79. lol
It’s difficult, but possible. Haha. I wrote about this a long time ago. If you ever saw the movie “When Harry Met Sally,” Harry explains pretty well why it’s difficult for men to be friends with women.
I suppose it’s possible for the men if they try hard (no pun intended). For us girls, it is second nature.
Men and women both are prone to guard their hearts. Some men and fewer (I hope, women) are satisfied to settle for less than friendship. A lasting marriage requires a friendship.
@quest4god@revelife - agree! exactly!
i think its really possible.. for men and women to be just friends..
I don’t know if it occurs often that a man and a woman become long term friends. Personally, I have several that I am friendly enough with to share personal views and some problems. It started the other way around that they’d wanted suggestions or advice. Except for one, they are much younger. I am sixty and one is in her fifties. The others are from 32 to 45ish. We share information about our children and sometimes about our problems. We don’t go out and hang out together. Two are from work and I’ve spent time between classes with some women at a late lunch. In my opinion, men don’t need close women friends for discussing daily needs. In fact, I think men only need other men less other than that too for discussing needs. On the other hand, women do seem to more frequently discuss things together. I don’t know if my experience is helpful. Its just what I’ve found that works in my life.
Best wishes for happiness and success Melly,
Hunt