I had this cloze passage prepared for my class quite some time ago bout this lame dog, that nobody would take a second glance at in the pet store, but not that neighbourhood kid… He saw sth in that dog, amongst all the other pupps and revealed his disability with his leg and concluded that this dog would need someone who’d understand him.
I’m the kind of girl, as any other girls I’m sure, when I do like someone, and gotten smitten. I’m gonna be missing and thinking and be waiting for his darned calls or texts… :/ My sis calls me ‘the romantic one’ cos I fall too easily. I’ve been talking to ‘A’ for a fair bit now, ‘B is out and I’ve gotten to know ‘A’ a lil better but I guess I can’t be too sure… But yet I feel like I understand him. I never really thought I’d like him at first. He Is Big and Fat and has the stubble that I absolutely adore, not sure why, but I’m drawn to him for some reason (:
The thing is now that he knows or figured that I kinda like him a little. I have all this doubts and reservations even thou he tells me everything, with his ex finance, sending him all these abusive texts, Ive also been on fb stalking duty and could not help but notice how he’s got all these beautiful sexy girls on his Fb :/ Also, I’m only hearing his side of the story. I know from experience, it takes 2 people to make or break a relationship… Why does this have to be such a game?! Why can’t it just be smooth and simple.. I hate how I’m missing him now, waiting for him to call. I wanted to do the pros and cons and than I thought, that would just be silly, I used to dismiss guys over the stupidest silliest things.. and I don’t want to be alone forever now waiting for ‘Mr Perfect’ to whisk me away.
I was just thinking, whatever happened to ‘standards?’ But then this standard thing will just become a list of endless unrealistic qualities I’d be seeking and really there’s no perfect person out there. Quite frankly, I’m also quite sick of the condescending look people give. U guys can suck it! All You Happy people in relationships!But…. If a man, who can’t love my god, how would he ever love me? This woman with flaws, how could he (agape) love me in such a way which is not that selfish kind of love, cos I’ll certainly fall short in so many ways. I have no qualms dating a non-believer. I just don’t like it, being disrespectful about it. The difference between us, Whenever he says the L-word, it’s the kind of love tinted with lust because of the way i look, how could he just say the L-word that easily without really meaning it, because that is not Love. Love is when he has seen aLL my flaws and says, he still loves me, love is despite everything, you still see that person you love without faults because Love is not self seeking.
I’m just ranting, I’m also really tired full on from the lack of sleep, staying up late. This is so weird but I’m really gonna miss rambling on here, when it ceases to exist… Anywho, I’m glad to have met such awesome interesting people in here. Your entries have enriched my life greatly in ways you’d never imagined, your life is such an inspiration. I thank you all greatly..! Enjoy what remains of the weekend ya’ll and have a freshly baked subway chocolate chip cookie on me but with your money.
xoxo