March 20, 2013
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Fear of being unloved & case of the ex
We are so afraid to show people who we really are so what we do is we put our best foot forward, and we keep doing that, sometimes it does takes a toil on us but we still manage to put up a show, this pretense of being liked and loved, getting Hi5′s from everyone you meet and in this technology and age, perhaps even a facebook like would make anyone feel good.
I wonder why?Ronnie, my ex as much as i loved him, he was a temperamental serious kinda guy, he’d take things up a notch with whatever people say and put alot of thoughts on things and flare up easily but it took him years to conceal that till we started living together.
It was a pretty intense time of my life but that’s alright, i learnt of things that i will not tolerate!
We’re all afraid to show what we’re really like, afraid of not being loved and we find ourselves afraid, defensive, fearful even, that the person you love has seen facets of you that aren’t pretty
The beauty of love is that, You will never know you are loved till you know you are still loved even despite the Ugliness.
Comments (8)
You are right, but it will never happen in my family.
Just because you act like your true self does not mean it’s ugly. I know that I can’t impress everyone I know and meet, but it doesn’t keep me from being who I really am. I care for people who love for who I am, not what they want me to be. And if people have to lie to others to make them happen, they’re only lying to themselves, thus creating and enabling their sadness.
I’ve found out through life that most people don’t like me for who I am, and I have a rather open personality. It happens.
@HUMOR_ME_NOW - @laytexduckie - @SlickRick297 - My point was on relationships, ive seen friends in relationships having it all too easy with sweet notings and having alot problems later on resulting in break ups, i admire couples who’ve come a long way with all the fights and still in love with their SO..
Thank you for your responses, i really appreciate it. x
You are right. My hubby and I agree that love is a choice. (There is also the natural love) but sometimes we choose to love each other when the other doesn’t deserve and the mercy covers us.
I am somewhere between I want everyone to like me and I could care less what people think. I think it has something to do with a particular time of the month.
@dorydabomb - That is so nice, you’ve got a gem of a husband (:
@olwd - Im such a bitch during that time of the month, i hate how big my boobs gets.. and i feel so uncomfortable in my own skin.. haha but then im happy afterwards (:
@mellywelly15 -
hehehehe