July 28, 2013
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The cycling date with the Russian :P
This may very well be my last post if Xanga ceases or not. I thought i should write on my date with the Russian today. Well, I took a chance when he sent me a text, asking me if i liked to cycle on the trails in the evening today and i thought why not…! Just that i looked really casual with tank top and without make-up. It went well but there was a lack of chemistry and all i could think off was ‘A’ but i gotta stop thinking bout ‘A’ and it has to be a two way street and i guess the lack of communication today would be good not giving him any attention. He ought to know what it feels like to miss me…
I met with a little accident while cycling. i was cycling down the pier taking in the views and accidentally crashed on to someone else.. It was bad, but i was mostly shocked and light headed when it happened. The Russian was surprised when he turned back and quickly cycled back and took such care of me. It was sweet, we sat and mostly chatted with him being the chatter and i was just gazing at the stars. It was quite romantic but just not with the right person sadly. I can’t believe it… Mr Russian’s actually 41. He’s a software engineer at Citibank. He did tried to get close and i just held on to my shirt if he was gonna go for the hands holding while we were strolling… haha
Everyone says, in a relationship.. It’s always, just that one person that will be on to it then the other which is sad.. I wanna be in love with someone, who loves me just as much… I don’t feel anything at all for the Russian.. He did spend a lot on me today like bicycle rental, food, wine. I offered to go dutch but he insisted on paying and found me weird and told me.. ”Please, this is how Europeans are like.. I don’t know how Australians does on dates but this is just basic chivalry” and i just said ”okay…” haha and we got a cab back home and he insisted on dropping me home.. I’m not used to all this kindness! :/
I really miss ‘A’ and it’s not even on appearance, i just really like him a lot and i don’t even know why but than again, talk is cheap! What are your thoughts of being the giver or taker in love??
Doesn’t Mr Russian have the ‘Antonio Banderas’ look going on esp with his hair???
Comments (14)
Look at you, pretty lady!
For me, I tend to give a little more than I take. I understand the good balance of both sides, and when one side constantly gives and the other constantly takes, it’s a recipe for a bad relationship. I know first hand. I think that there are feelings that you just can’t fight and let it flow. If you don’t feel any chemistry with the Russian, then you shouldn’t have to force it.
If this is indeed the last post, I’m sad.
I do have your email, though. And I’ll be hopping on Skype more soon.
I think A is a bad guy. :p mwahaha.
I think it needs to be equal; A person should give and take just the same. Usually, when I’m given it all, I take advantage of it. And when I give it all, the other person takes advantage of me. Good luck, and if this is your last post, nice knowing you! :’(
@laytexduckie - Haha thank you mister complimentary! I reckon we’re the same, we love and give. Because, I’ve gotten to know ‘A’ first and Russian’s 41 and can’t speak English well which is quite a turn off.. hahah i dunno.. Oh he plays the drums, just that and look at all that hair and he’s prob rich :/ With ‘A’ i feel comfortable talking about things and we have established something all this while. Man will be Man! I should not be such a psycho crazy bitch just cos he liked a stripper picty on fb.. and every relationship there’s always gonna be some issues, its all bout if could be worked out or not. People leave relationships over the slightest thing and I’m in it for the long haul which is why i’m wary and fearful.. He’s not even my bf yet and i’m already acting all crazy! lol I’ll set up a word press acct so don’t be sad..
xxx
p/s When are you exactly heeding to HK? hahah
@GreekPhysique - ‘We’ always like the bad boys!
@jennylovve - Nobody should of have to take advantage cos your amazing like that inside out and are you on Skype babe?! Where are you going to? I don’t wanna loose touch with U lovely.. :’( xxx
@mellywelly15 – Hahah. Funny thing is, I played the drums too. Hahah. But yeah, if you feel that you can always establish more of a connection with A than with Russian, that’s a good indicator about A. Also, I know that liking a picture of a stripper will irk plenty of people. You also have to look at the big picture too. Will you react the same if he liked a simple picture of a female friend? Or is it only bothersome because the picture he liked was because she was a stripper? I think that having an open, civil discussion not just with A, but with yourself as well, will really help you identify what your limits in tolerance are as well as ways to expand that tolerance.
And weeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! More bloggy friendies!
I think the family is aiming to head to HK towards the middle of January. They also mentioned heading to China for a week or so, but no definite set timeline. I just know it will be middle of JanuaryJanuary to beginning of February.
@laytexduckie - Just strippers and a hot one at that.. This is silly! I dunno, right now, i just feel like jumping on him and hugging him so tight. It’s silly i know and its weird but when he don’t give me any attention, i like him even more! hah :/ and yes we do have a connection. I don’t know if this is love or not but i’m in awe of him mostly and i just feel happy whenever we talk. If your heeding to china… totes GO TO MACAU BEN!!! Oh man, those egg tarts there are to live for. xxx
@mellywelly15 – I wouldn’t put too much thought behind that then. You did mention that you two aren’t exclusive yet, so there shouldn’t be too much of a problem. And plus, hugs are awesome. Although, it is odd about the less attention = more attraction thing. Whether it’s love yet or not, that’s something you shouldn’t worry about. Instead, just spend time together, have fun, and let things develop on their own. There’s no need for a set timeline of “when things are supposed to happen.” Instead, just go with the flow.
And mmmmm, egg tarts. Hahah. My parents are mainly planning the trip so I don’t know where we will be visiting. Hahah. I’ll make sure to find some time for us to hang out.
I wrote a post where you can find me. Follow my wordpress if you have one so I can follow you! I’m iffy with skype haha but I want to keep in touch! Hope you have a wp
OMG, you are adorable, albeit drunk girl. lol I mean really, crashed into someone? I’m on FB, please come stalk me!!! hehehe
@olwd - Amyyyyyy.. okay! how do I find you on fb?
Back view of my gorgeous blonde hair. Look in the Xanga groups or just search for my full name.
They only let me do one Mini at a time. Booooooo…..
I feel Russian would be lucky to have such a beautiful girl by his side. I feel both parties involved (man and woman) have to be equal in giving and receiving love. I agree and understand COMPLETELY about you wanting someone that will show you love in return. It is the simplest thing that everyone wants in life, to be loved.
BIG HUGZ!!!!!