August 4, 2013

• The Ready-Made Male

  I guess the saying is true. “The Perfect Man does only exist in books.” Being single still has its perks sometimes. Well this is coming from me, a single women in her 20′s… Okay, i lied. I’ll be reaching the big 30 soon and feels like, I’ve not accomplished much in my life. I wanted to travel and see the world and that has changed when i didn’t get the job i wanted, but i still wanna travel around Asia and open up my own food place or a cafe someday. Everyone seems to be diving into F&B these days and mine will have to stand out and be a little different from the rest with really awesome food and an awesome place to hang out and chill.

  Most people are taken aback when they know of my age, because in a country like Singapore. It is imperative for most Asians to settle down with kids at my age, well that’s just the mindset that people have. The whole point of this post that inspired me to write was with a conversation with a co-worker. She mentioned, at my age, her family would be searching a man for her with all the attributes she looks for in a significant other. I asked her, what if he lacked in the looks departments and she said, her family would def find an attractive male, with looks, and other qualities makes me wonder if there is indeed a ready-made man from out of the fairy tale book… One can only hope!

   I was just talking to Cheryl, telling her about A. I’ve not told her about him, if i were to tell her, he will have to be really special. I still had to fill her in a little about the stripper incident with ‘A’ and she said i should have had the relationship defined and then get crazy after and yes, i did got a wee bit crazy with him liking a stripper’s picty and which guy doesn’t like that and i told him that he’d be better off marrying to a stripper and that i won’t compete with loose women. Yes, i know, was a bit much and in my defense, it was the lack of sleep and stuffs with family but still no excuse… I’ve already apologized. I feel awful, for someone who used to call every day, now just send me a text or two and likes my pics on fb instead.

  I did got a little desperate with the thought of being 30 soon and i learn the hard way. Cheryl, is a person i trust with everything and she said not to think so much of my age but to make sure it’s the right person for me and bolt right away at first signs if he’s not the right person and be careful of sweet words and if his values hasn’t changed then yes, consider it a red flag. I love the wisdom that comes out of Cheryl. She just wants me to make sure i’m choosing the right guy for myself and not waste my time and energy on losers and people with no vision and values- Her words!

  She asked me what i liked about him, and if he was good looking… hah i told her that looks didn’t really matter much, its the character and personality cos that stays with you and she asked what bout his character that attracted me or lack of… hahhahaha.

  I’m moving on from ‘A’- With low quality, comes with low exectation. He’s been with way wayyyyy too many women. I don’t mean to judge… Just a word of advise! Maybe not a good idea to tell your potential significant other you wanna date bout everything with past relationships. Hah

  I’M EXCITED FOR RUSSELL… Dont hold back at me Russell Brand! I’m thinking of skipping time & underwear & going straight to bedding him tonite  

   

  

   

   

   

   

   

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